Ever had an argument where one person wants to talk things out immediately while the other just needs some space? That’s not just personality…it’s how stress responses are wired. Studies show men…
My ex was always mad that I would go for a walk after a fight, like “you’re running away from the conversation”. And I was really just digesting everything inside, so as not to say too much. Only then…
Omg this explains so much. I always thought my boyfriend was ignoring me when he went quiet during fights, but turns out he’s just in “flight mode” 
Wow, that’s very informative.
opened my eyes to a lot of things
My boyfriend needs to vent right away, and I just wanna go silent and scroll memes till I reset 
Kinda makes me wonder-how much of this …
There’s actually solid research behind this.
Shelley Taylor’s team at UCLA found that men tend to show more fight-or-flight, while women often show tend-and-befriend — seeking support or calming the …